About Me

Hey there, you!
Thanks so much for checking out my blog! I'm very glad you are here. Let me introduce myself:

My name is Jade, and I'm a woman in my late 30s. I'm into BDSM: bondage in particular, and am a submissive or a bottom. I love to be restrained, shackled, tied up! :) And I am learning about different kinds of pain like paddling, whipping, and nipple clamps. I'm fairly new to this though, and am slowly exploring the many wonderful aspects of BDSM. I have SO much to learn! And I'm terribly excited about learning and experiencing it!

I have never been married, and I do not have any children. I am in a committed relationship with a wonderful man who is my Dom. He's in his mid 20s and we met online. (Yes, I know, he's a lot younger than I am, which was weird at first, but I'm over it now). We now live together, which makes me VERY happy! :) There are many things I still struggle with, but I genuinely yearn to please my darling Dom and serve him, even if the things he wants are sometimes very difficult for me. I hope to spend the rest of my life with him!!! :)

I am a professional woman and work Monday through Friday. I wanted a lifestyle where I could pursue my career and live a generally vanilla life by day but also experience all of the twisted joys of BDSM by night. I always felt that I would never be able to find a partner who wanted the same things until I met my darling S. He is my companion and best friend by day, and my Dom and lover by night. Although these things might sound contradictory (and felt that way to me before we met), they are not! And I love my life more each and every day. :) We do everything together: We share the same interests and enjoy the same sports. There isn't anything I do that isn't better with him by my side!

What else should you know about me? I'm intelligent (I know, saying that makes me sound like a smart ass but I couldn't figure out any other way to say it, and it's true), and I have a Master's degree in my field. I love, love, love my job and plan to work until the day I retire even if I win the lottery! :)  I've been lucky enough to travel a lot and meet a wide variety of people in a lot of different places. I love to read and own a ridiculous number of books. My dream is to write my own book and have it published someday. I love animals, especially dogs, but I don't currently own one. I love outdoor activities and spend some time outside each and every day, weather permitting.


I started this journal in order to chronicle our exploration of this lifestyle together. I want to have this record to look back at our journey. To remember the milestones, the struggles and the joys. And I hope that others who are considering the lifestyle or interested in certain topics enjoy my blog entries too! When I first started exploring this lifestyle, I came across many blogs and they absolutely saved me! To be able to read about other people who were actually living what I had only dreamed of gave me hope and lots of information and ideas. I am eternally grateful to these blog authors! So I hope to be able to do the same for others now! :)

If you have any thoughts or comments as you read, I'd LOVE to hear from you! And you can comment anonymously! So please don't be shy about letting me know what you think!

Welcome! Sit back, relax, and enter Jade's world for a while! :)