Hi everyone,
So, I've been writing this blog for a while, and I've gotten a few responses and comments here and there, but it's kind of strange writing for an unknown audience, you know? I primarily decided to start a blog because when I was looking into this lifestyle, it was other people's blogs, and especially slaveduties' that saved me! So I thought I'd put my own experiences out there for others who might be curious or just starting out.
But I'd love some feedback! What do my readers think of this blog? I know I write very lengthy posts: Are they too long? Do you enjoy the details? What about the images I include: Do they help illustrate the blog topics or just get in the way?
Do you have any feedback, comments, ideas, suggestions? I'd LOVE to hear from you! Remember, you can post anonymously so please share your opinion with me! :)
Hi Jade, I just in the past week found your blog and I absolutely LOVE it. This is the kind of lifestyle I have always wanted to have, and its refreshing to see that it is possible. However I would like to see more than just what goes on in the bedroom. Like more about you personally, because its really hard to imagine most of this happening when I can't really find any basic info about you as a person. Im assuming that you don't have kids, and I know your in your thirty's but that doesn't leave much wiggle room to as how you and S. are able to coincide. Im under the impression that S. is a lot younger than you because you mentioned him going to college, but I have no clue about any of your twos other life choices. Honestly, Im just looking for tips, so that maybe some day Ill be able to have this type of relationship, and it be based off of more than sex.
ReplyDeleteAlso, I love the length of your blog posts, and the details, but Im very surprised you are able to remember so much. When I go into "subspace" I can't remember almost anything besides physical stuff. Also, the images can be very helpful, especially when someone doesn't know what the toy in question looks like.
Hi Destiny,
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for the comment! :) I'm glad you found my blog. I'm curious how you came upon it?
I guess you're right: I haven't really described who I am very much. Sorry about that! To try to answer some of your questions: I'm in my late 30s and S is in his mid 20s. So he definitely is quite a bit younger than I am. We met online, but not on a site related to BDSM or anything like that. It was a chance meeting online, and we became friends at first just chatting online. Then he started to pursue me.
As I've written before, I figured that he was just this super sweet guy and would NEVER begin to understand me. And I was honestly bothered by the big age difference. So I kept resisting his advances. But he was so persistent that I finally took a chance and opened up to him about what I really wanted. I figured I'd scare him away lol. But instead, I seem to have opened a Pandora's box inside him! And he's never looked back since. It was the surprise of my life, let me tell you!
I don't have any children, and neither does S. He recently graduated from college and then moved here to live with me and look for a job. I'm employed full time in a professional field and greatly enjoy my job. So I wanted a lifestyle where I could continue to do that by day but also live out my wildest dreams by night.
Our relationship is most definitely based on a lot more than sex! S. is a perfect gentleman by day and a wonderful companion! We enjoy the same sports and leisure activities and his all consuming concern is to be sure that I am happy! It's really pretty incredible! He spends all his time asking if I'm enjoying myself, and doing everything in his power to make every moment as wonderful as possible together. :) We both spend a lot of time outdoors doing things like hiking, boating, etc. And we also love to snuggle together and watch movies or just chat. He isn't just my Dom, he's also my best friend. :)
I'm glad the images help! That's good to know. And I'm happy to hear that you enjoy the details. You know it's funny, when I write my blog posts, sometimes I remember things as I write them. It's like it's all fuzzy and muddled in my brain but when I start writing it just sort of comes back to me as I relive each moment.
Thanks again for your comment! It is greatly appreciated and feel free to ask me anything else you would like. :)
I talked to Jade about her "about me" page is out-of-date and needs to be revised. So that will be a stepping stone to fix in the next day or so.
ReplyDeleteOh, I was just on google images and the diagram of the girl in Japanese bondage rope popped up, and since Ive done this with someone before I clicked on it. I love that I now know that having this type of relationship is actually possible; Ive read a lot of other blogs about 24/7 BDSM and I became under the impression that that was all that is out there (not to mention that most of the sites seem too trashy/freaky for me). Do you know of any other bloggers out there who have a similar relationship?
ReplyDeleteJade,
ReplyDeleteI found you through slaveduties.com and enjoy hearing your stories. Keep up the good work!
@Destiny: Yes! Google is where we found that image when S. decided to try Japanese rope bondage on me for the first time. I've always been fascinated by it: It's an art form and some of the pictures I've seen are just stunning! You're right about most blogs: They are often 24/7 total power exchange type of relationships and frankly go much farther than I would care to. Here is a link to a web page that collects blogs written by both Doms and subs: http://www.submissiveloving.com/bdsm_blogs.html Some of the ones on there are pretty great. Hope it helps! :)
ReplyDelete@Anonymous. Thank you so much for taking the time to comment! It's good to know how people find my blog. I love slaveduties' website!!! I think she's provided a place for people from all over the world to meet and learn. I'm very glad to hear that you enjoy reading the stories on my blog. :)Thanks again!
Hey Jade,
ReplyDeleteBeen a long time since ive visited. Sounds like Mr.S's mind is doing well lol. In my opinion, your blog topics are not too long and the pictures that accompany them are just right. You could write a short book with the details you put in one post. Anyways, your blog is always at the top of my list of things to check. Both of you are interesting in your adventures.
Btw, hows your story coming?
-B
Hi B,
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for taking the time to post! :) I'm glad that you don't feel that my blog posts are too lengthy. You're right: Sometimes I feel like I'm writing a book lol. I'm very glad you enjoy my blog, as I enjoy writing about the things S puts me through, smile.
Thanks for asking about my story. I haven't actually had time to work on it recently, but I should! :)
Hello jade. Through reading your blogs and responses, to me, you seem like a very nice person. But I have a question. What do you think this man feels for you? Because your stories make it very clear that he holds little to no respect for you, and thinks of you not as a lover, but property. From what I have read, he treats you as one would a dog.
ReplyDeleteThink about it.
Hi Jade! (You can call me M) I love this blog, even though I'm not sure if it's active anymore... My ex linked it to me a few days ago and I fell in love with it right away! I think that you shouldn't be bothered with the lengths, it's more important that the details gets in there and it truly is wonderfully written. This blog is helping me figure out what I want from a relationship. It's not exactly this but similar! I want to have a life and a partner I can be seen with proudly, that the bdsm part is reserved for bedtime and sexy time, someone who can be both submissive and dominant, because I truly enjoy both roles and wouldn't want to give one up for the other (but I still don't want vanilla, I mean, come on) So I was wondering if you know of any blogs or anything bdsm related where the partners switch roles? I'd be very grateful
ReplyDelete- M